I’m at a wedding this week, supporting one of my best friends and enjoying the…cold rainy charms of Kentucky? Ok, maybe I’m not enjoying the weather so much, but I’m happy to be here! But it does mean we have a shorter Lyse Links than usual. Hopefully you won’t mind too much. (If you do, there’s a whole backlog of previous Lyse Links you can peruse!)
if you’re going to wax poetic about male pleasure, you had better be ready to talk about its secret, unpleasant, ubiquitous cousin: female pain.
It’s an astonishing and painful read. And stop to consider, if you read it, that the author’s whole point is only about removing female pain from sex, not actually making sex a pleasurable activity for women!
A gentle and multi-sided look at handling dementia care. Is it right to lie to those with dementia? Is is good for them? How deep do you go with the fiction?
Caring for elders is a hard and complicated thing in many situations, but especially when dementia is at play. I went through it with my own loved owns, and witnessed many others in the process. It can be heart-breaking, uplifting, confusing. Reading this article makes it a little easier to understand.
How do we understand the fall in urban violence? Well, first we have to be aware that there has been a decline in urban violence! In the age of news that moves at the speed of the refresh button, it can be hard to remember what things were like 10, 30, 50 years ago. Articles like this help us recenter and reflect.
Turns out, the National Park Service has its own investigative branch, like the FBI but smaller and maybe…hardier? Certainly more outdoorsy! When complex crimes occur on NPS land, they have to find the truth.
This may not be of general interest, but as a runner, I’m pretty interested in the idea that running–as a sport, a community, a hobby–is taking off in other lands. This long article covers a few long-distance races in China, looks at the businesses behind the races, and ruminates a bit on how running reflects changes in Chinese society.
Off to party!
That’s all from me, I’m off to wedding festivities! What are you up to this weekend?